What the family decides
Choices that come up before the ceremony
What this is
The family decides where people will say goodbye, who will be there, and what the clothes, flowers, and transport should be
If something is still open, that is ordinary. The list can be filled slowly, in one conversation
The farewell can be at home, in a hall, or in a church. Transport follows that choice and continues toward the cemetery
The next step
The exact terms are agreed with the family